Ok, so I appreciate this is the internet and people will take things in ways not intended but please consider that there is a different tone and sentiment behind what I am posting and there's no aggression meant at all. If you take it on face value and don't assume any emotion on my part then you might see that I'm just being assertive and not aggressive. Maybe you could even go one step further and assume the best in me as I do for the players and consider I am debating things with good intentions in the spirit of understanding people and finding some consensus somewhere.
I don't know what the negative feedback is that you think I'm responding to aggressively to. There was suggestion to do something I disagree with and I responded with clear explanation why we are not going to do that.
Your post above is the first negative feedback I've seen on this thread aimed at me and I take that on board and with the good intentions it is meant. Honestly, I don't know what the solution is to that.
I think it would be pretty sad if I had to leave threads like this with no official response because some people may see disagreement on my part as aggression.
Even if I leave it for a while to prepare a careful response that has minimal chance of being taken the wrong way, the pitchforks may be out before I've returned. You have to also consider that spending a lot of time crafting a special reply that has the lowest chance of being taken the wrong way by a select minority is not really the best use of our time.
How about maybe we just assume the best in everyone posting here? In my opinion, time is the greatest gift you can give (we all only have a little of it before our lives are done), so I think the time spent here by anyone talking to others should be valued. There is the occasional overtly aggressive post with swear words and threatening to quit the game, but most of the time what is posted here is a gift, right?
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