Why guess? It's in the rulebook! :)

http://www.shadowera.com/content.php?142-Game-Rules



Hope that clears it up and should answer your specific examples.

For 2v2 games: the top-level...

Sorry, I was only giving a relevant part of the SRO. To be more general: Attachments on any type of card are always processed directly after the card they are attached to.

Actually, you will get cards then!

It's only because the death of the Wisp has explicitly removed the attachments early that it can't trigger when it would have. On any other ally being killed,...

Correct, but I'll elaborate.

When two things would otherwise need to happen at the same time, we use a standard resolution order for that.

In the case of an ally and attachments on that ally,...